I saw this whilst looking at some blogs and it really touched me and made me think.
This poem was found by nurses after an old man had died and they were collecting together all his personal thngs. They were so touched by it that they had copies made and sent all around the hospital.
Crabby old man!
What do you see nurses? ...........What do you see?
What are you thinking .........when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man ........... not very wise?
Uncertain of habit ........ with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food ........... and makes no reply?
When you say in a loud voice .........." I do wish you'd try"
Who seems not to notice ........ the things that you do
And forever is losing .......... a sock or a shoe
Who, resisting or not .........let's you do as you will
With bathing and feeding ....... the long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking?......Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes nurse.......you're not loooking at me
I'll tell you who I am ......... as I sit here so still
As I do your bidding .......... as I eat at your will
I'm a small child of Ten .......... with a father and mother
brothers and sisters ........... who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen ........ with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now ........... a lover he'll meet
A groom soon at Twenty ........... my heart gives a leap
Remembering the vows ............ that I promised to keep
At Twenty - five now ......... I have young of my own
Who need me to guide ........ and a secure happy home
A man of Thirty ............ my young now grown fast
Bound to each other ........... with ties that should last
At Forty, my young sons .......... have grown and are gone
But my woman's beside me ............ to see I don't moan
At Fifty, once more ....... babies play round my knee
Again we know children ............. my loved one and me
Dark days are upon me ........... my wife is now dead
I look at the future ....... I shudder with dread
For my young ones are all rearing ........... young of their own
And I think of the years ........... and the love that I've known
I'm now an old man .......... and nature is cruel
Tis jest to make old age ........ look like a fool
The body it crumbles ........ grace and vigour departs
There is now a stone ...... where I once had a heart
But inside this old carcass ............ a young guy still dwells
And now and again ........... my battered heart swells
I remember the joys .......... I remember the pain
And I'm loving and living ........... life over again
And accept the stark fact ........... that nothing can last
So open your eyes, people ............ open and see
Not a crabby old man ........... Look
Closer ........ see ....... ME!